FOREPLAY
Foreplay should be spontaneous, mutually enjoyed, and long enough to satisfy each partner. It is a mistake to assume that an erection or vaginal lubrication signals readiness for penetration or orgasm.
HOW LONG SHOULD FOREPLAY LAST?
This simple question about a complex issue is answered simply: "UNTIL BOTH PARTNERS ARE EAGER FOR INTERCOURSE”.
He signals her when his penis is firm and ready for action: she signals him when she yearns for the sensation of his penis in her well lubricated and receptive vaginal.
After thrusting has begun, it may be sometimes interrupted periodically for more ‘foreplay" or caressing to provide as many orgasms as the woman wishes and both partners reach ultimate satisfaction.
When marital discord exists or there is a fear of intimacy, one partner may find foreplay distasteful or uncomfortable and avoids it as much as possible.
The perfectionist makes every effort to be the world’s most perfect lover, prolonging foreplay beyond the point of pleasure so he can touch every one of his partner’s erogenous areas in textbook order.
When hostility exists there is a struggle for power and control and arguments about the duration of foreplay. A man fearful of losing his erection may hasten to enter, one who is anxious about ejaculating prematurely, may stop foreplay to avoid getting “overstimulated".
On the other hand, a woman who is non-orgasmic may wish to prolong foreplay. There is no magic number of minutes of foreplay. It can be as brief as a second or as long as an hour.
In the excitement phase with the penis erect and the vagina lubricated, continued caressing and stimulation is required until both partners are ready for penile penetration.
It is a mistake to assume that an erection or vaginal lubrication signals readiness for penetration or orgasm. This often leads to premature entrance by men who may not realize the woman would enjoy more precoital lovemaking.
Foreplay should be spontaneous, mutually enjoyed, and long enough to satisfy each partner.
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